My son with his first piano book! He was so proud of it that he insisted on bringing it to Grandpa & Grandma’s house to show them!
This is my son. Isn’t he cute? My husband and I are both professional musicians with music degrees so we naturally hoped our kid would be into music and did everything in our means to make music appreciation and learning available to him. We expose him to everything from Mozart to Little Richard to The Killers. He’s got a drum kit, a keyboard and a little guitar (these were all gifts from other people, actually). We let him play our own instruments (violin, mandolin, guitar, etc) with assistance. Thankfully, he LOVES music. Big sigh of relief!!!
His favorite song right now is “Roar” by Katy Perry to which he knows most of the words and he expresses his love for the song by krumping (He doesn’t know that it’s is not stylistically fitting and yes, he has seen part of Rize… no regrets there). If you ask him, he’ll say his favorite instrument is the piano but a few months ago it was the drums, so he’s still deciding.
(This video was taken when he was 1 and drums were still his favorite instrument!)
He’s only 2 but I’ve determined that he’s ready for piano lessons! I’ve been teaching young children music lessons since 2002 so by now, I know the signs.
Raising a toddler… wow! If you’ve got one, you know what I mean.
I absolutely adore my son and generally feel like I’m pretty lucky. He usually obeys. He’s positive and smiles a lot. He usually eats his vegetables and picks up his toys. But I haven’t figured out the potty training thing yet and every once in a while (a lot more often since he turned two) my son throws a really terrible, embarrassing, screaming, throwing, kicking tantrum!
I’ve tried several different tactics for calming the storm but one method has proven to be the most effective so far…
A while back my son randomly picked the TV show “Daniel’s Neighborhood” (a cartoon spin-off of Mr. Roger’s Neighborhood) from a line-up of shows on Netflix. We were watching the episode when one of the songs really stuck out to me. It was called, “When You Feel So Mad That You Want To Roar”. As the song played a couple times during the show I sang it under my breath so I could remember it later. I had the distinct feeling that it might help my son calm down.
It helped me that same day!
Have the little voices in your head ever said, “you’re too poor to go after your dream?” Oh, you don’t hear voices? Um, I mean..
You probably don’t have the salary you’d prefer. You might not have a savings account. Maybe you don’t own a computer. Maybe you can’t afford a car.
..You might not even have a job!
For a very long time I didn’t work on my dream because I believed the lie that I was too poor to accomplish it.
You see, in 2009 I had already written my first book, “Money C. Counts 1, 2, 3” when I decided to hole myself in a room for an entire weekend (waking up at 7 am and going to bed at 2 am) as a big push to complete the graphics and finally send it off to the printer. I worked really, really hard and got the work done. I was ready to ship.
A few days later I woke up, got my coffee and went to grab my beautiful, shiny, silver Apple Powerbook that I had bought in college. I was in for a big surprise! My computer was so HOT that I actually burned my fingers! I couldn’t even pick it up. I had to go to the kitchen and get my oven mitts in order to carry the computer over to the window ledge where the crisp winter air could cool it down. My precious computer was fried, literally. Even the Apple geniuses couldn’t fix it. (more…)
This is why I love Soul Pancake! You SHOULD dance in elevators!
A couple weeks ago Jon Acuff (New York Times best selling author of “Quitter”, “Stuff Christians Like” and “Start”) tweeted:
“Adventurers wanted. 24 People. Email me your name, address & phone number. I’m deleting this post in 17 hours”
(or something close, shoulda got a screenshot). So I sent him my info and shortly received an e-mail stating I was “in”. There are over 1,000 people worldwide that are participating in the START experiment and our 24 day adventure starts on Monday, July 15. Acuff said a machete and passport might be necessary so I got mine ready just in case.
In preparation for this whole ordeal my husband, Harmony, and I listened to Acuff’s book “Start: Punch Fear in the Face. Escape Average. Do work that matters.” while we drove from Chicago to LaCrosse, WI to visit family for the 4th of July. We were both inspired to start something new. Additionally, I decided to share some of my thoughts about START in my blog.
In order to START something significant, you have to learn how to deal with the lies that fear & doubt whisper in your ear. In my next few blogs, I’m going to unveil some of the fear & doubt dragons I had to slay & some important lessons I’ve learned along the way.
Why don’t I just go ahead and start with the most shallow excuse that I struggled with when starting my book series…